Or How the Victim Mentality Continues to Plague Our Society from the Bottom to the Top
Despite all the great leaders it has had,
all the great Filipinos it has had, and all the resources it has, the
Philippines is still one of the poorest countries in the world.
From the time of Emilio Aguinaldo to Noynoy Aquino, most of our people are still born poor and will die poor.
Is
this because of the system of government? Is this because of the people
in that system of government? Is it because of how Filipino society is?
Is it because capitalists exploit labor? Is it because of the muslims
in Mindanao? Is it because of criminal syndicates? Is it because of
corrupt politicians?
Really? If you think that those are the
reasons why most Filipinos are poor, then, I have to say that in a lot
of cases, people who believe this have been played for a fool and have
been used for someone else’s agenda.
It’s a ruse really, part of the arsenal
of agitators. The first thing they’ll do is to find something that
you’ll get angry about — low wages, unfair treatment, corruption,
injustice, and such. The next thing they’ll do is blame what you are
experiencing on someone or something. After that, they’ll string you up
by the nose and lead you to do any number of things which they will make
you believe will solve your problems.
When I was a freshman in high school, my
sociology teacher told us that the reason why the country was poor was
because President Ferdinand Marcos and his friends mismanaged the
economy. I didn’t know much about economy beyond what I was taught and
what I understood about it, but it did make me angry to think that a few
people had so much power that they could make a lot of people poor.
At home, we did experience not having
enough money. Then again, my father was a government employee with a
fixed salary and we were a brood of five children. We had all the modern
appliances, two cars at one point, ate out often, and went to field
trips out of town. We kids were all enrolled in private schools. We
shopped in department stores and our mother insisted on getting us the
best stuff. My father smoke, drank, and bet on horses.
So, yeah, in my mind back then, Marcos
and his cronies were to blame for our lack of money as well as economic
advancement. My father said that so many times after his sixth beer on
Sundays. LOL!
Anyway, my teacher basically told us
that the way to end the injustice being done to us and the poverty we
were experiencing we needed to end the rule of President Marcos and
return to a real and true democracy… where we could vote for our
leaders, where we would have a greater say in how the economy was
managed, where we could speak up against injustices, where we could
organize ourselves to work together in bringing about solutions to
widespread problems…
Guess what? From the time it was claimed
that the country returned to “true” democracy to the present when Cory’s
son is nearing the end of his term as president, nothing much has
changed.
Most of our people are still born poor and most of them will die… …still poor.
Clearly now, to me, it doesn’t seem like Marcos was the reason why the Philippines is one of the poorest in the world.
It could still be argued that the
country’s leadership from Emilio Aguinaldo to Noynoy Aquino had an
impact on how the country’s political-economic system was set up and
managed. The rest of the argument can go so many ways and most of these
arguments center around the idea that the only way to improve your life
is to change “the system” or “change the people who run the system.”
Do you believe that? If so, stop reading this because the rest of what I have to say may upset you.
If you buy into the crappy argument that
has you putting blame on people and things as the cause for the
circumstances of your life, then you are what is called a victim… a mark
in someone’s con game… a cat’s claw for someone who doesn’t want his or
her hands sullied.
To begin explaining to you how foolish it
is to hope that changes in the country’s leadership or changes in the
political and economic system will enable you to have a better life, I
have to tell you about the Rube Goldberg machine.
It is an excessively elaborate machine
that is built to do a simple thing in as an indirect and circuitous
way as possible. It is bit entertaining to watch a Rube Goldberg
machine work perfectly and see how one component sets off another
component like a row of dominoes, but in the end it is just a waste of
time.
The only people that benefit from a Rude
Goldberg machine are those people who set up such machines. They either
set up such machines for their own entertainment or are paid to set up
such machines for the entertainment of others. The machine itself
doesn’t do anything useful for anyone else and even if it does end up
doing anything of practical value, it would only be incidental.
It is almost the same thing with people who advocate systems change as a means towards lifting people out of poverty.
A direct way to lift people out of
poverty is still through skills training and education. Yes, folks, it
is that simple and it works.
The system changers’ plan to lift people
out of poverty involves getting congress to change the constitution to
change the system of government from presidential to parliamentary,
re-organize the country a federation, and take out all restrictions to
foreign investments.
These changes in turn will lead to the following:
- It is assumed that somehow the parliamentary form of government will perform better than a presidential form of government in the delivery of services such as an improved public education system, an improved health services, improved public transportation, etcetera.
- It is assumed that because the country is organized into a federation with provinces or regions as separate states, the heads of these states will run their territories in a way that would benefit their people in many ways.
- It is assumed that because more investments will flow into the country, more people will have jobs (perhaps even higher paying ones) and because more people will have more money, they will be able to use this money in a way that would lift themselves out of poverty.
It seems like a simple thing to do,
especially so because these proposed massive and complex changes can be
packaged into a couple of words and phrases.
But don’t let that fool you. Even just
getting legislators to formally discuss charter change involves a number
of steps and involves the consent of so many people. Just to give you
an idea of how long it might take, just figure that moves to just
discuss changing the constitution were initiated during former President
Fidel V. Ramos’ term and till now, it is still being discussed — though
not as prominently as it had been a couple of times in the past.
In the short and immediate term, the only
people who have benefitted and who will benefit from advocating
“systems change” are the advocates themselves or the people who pay them
to advocate it for whatever gain it may have for them, the rest of us
just end up wasting time or money or both.
So really, if you are advocating
something you better get something out of it other than a t-shirt and
membership in an exclusive club of some sort.
I am not saying that systems change won’t
work. What I am emphasizing is that you shouldn’t wait for systems
change to happen before you starting changes that will improve your own
life.
Don’t waste your time ranting and whining
on social media about how stupid the government or how inane a corrupt a
government official is, unless you are getting some substantial benefit
out of it. Even then, there are better and much more beneficial uses of
your time on social media.
When it comes to the topic of changing
things for the better, there are a lot of people who “talk game” but
very few people who actually “bring game”. You know what I mean?
Some people who talk game basically just
diss people who are actually playing the game, which is in some cases
the farthest that they can ever hope to achieve because they are not
even in the game.
If you really want things to change
in this country, here’s the deal: Do everything to stop being a victim
and quit participating in schemes that end up making more victims. Stop
blaming things outside of yourself for the things you are experiencing
or not experiencing. Start taking full responsibility for your life and
focus on developing yourself so that you realize your full potential and
can better handle the situation your are in.
More importantly, remember that you don’t
get what you deserve in life… …you only get what you negotiate for.
What that means is that you have to work for everything that you are
going to get in life, there aren’t any magic genies or disembodied yayas
that will give you the things that you need or want because you behaved
like a nice boy or girl.
A very good and dear friend once said, “If you want to help the country, don’t be poor.”
I think that THAT is not enough. That just ensures you don’t add to the number of poor people which we already have.
If you really want to help this country
and its people, become rich… extremely rich. Depending on your
circumstances, it may or may not be possible to become extremely rich
here in the Philippines and nothing should prevent you from trying to
become extremely rich in some other part of the world.
Then, with what you can spare, get
involved in a project or start one that will help other people to become
rich. Put more money in helping people who want to become rich because
there’s really little use in helping people who will not help
themselves.
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